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12/16/12
5 Simple Ways to Turn Frustration into IntentionWe all get frustrated from time to time – right? Right! Suppose you’re frustrated with the fact that your ex hasn’t been reliable in picking up or dropping off your kids for parenting time. Or your child is consistently bringing home bad grades. Perhaps your mother in law is undermining your authority when it comes to raising your kids. The scenarios are endless. When we’re...Read More12/4/12
You Have More Control Than You Think When You Choose Collaborative DivorceWhen you are facing the possibility of divorce, it is important for you to see that you are not a powerless victim. You don’t need to worry about your future. You can simply Collaborative Divorce is similar to mediation but generally more effective in that both parties have their own attorney to advise them and there is a team environment where additional professionals are added as...Read More11/19/12
8 Easy Ways to Increase Your Persuasiveness When NegotiatingWe are often trying to persuade or influence someone in our professional and personal lives. Here I focus specifically on negotiating – whether you are buying a car or negotiating a business transaction. The truth is, people are more likely to give you what you want when they like and trust you. The psychology of why people say “yes” was the subject of the well-known book by...Read More11/2/12
Valuable Life Lessons from Hurricane SandyIn the midst of what is being called one of the devastating events in history, unexpected opportunities to connect with loved ones and help those in need can be seen all around us. From the moment the monumental storm ripped through our area on Monday night, we saw that there really is a powerful force out there that is much larger than ourselves. As my...Read More10/26/12
8 Powerful Ways to Increase your Child’s Self Esteem and Ability to Fend Off BulliesThe best time to take charge of bullying behavior is Fortunately, we now have legislation and comprehensive anti-bullying policies to protect our children. You don’t need to look solely to your school, however, to protect your child from bullying behavior. Below are 8 powerful and specific ways that you can empower your child with self esteem and the skills needed to create and attract healthy relationships: 1...Read More8/12/12
President of Time Warner’s HBO Entertainment, Sue Naegle, speaks locally on September 19Our event subcommittee of the Women in Business Committee of the Morris County Chamber of Commerce is excited to present this opportunity to feature HBO Entertainment President Sue Naegle as our keynote speaker on September 19, 2012 for the event entitled “Defining Moments . . . On the Journey to Success.” Join us to hear Sue Naegle share her own defining moments, from growing up in Rockaway, New Jersey, to...Read More6/2/12
10 Practical Ways to Protect Yourself After DivorceIt’s finally over. You went to court and the judge signed your Judgment of Divorce. In most cases, your divorce agreement – the final product of lengthy ongoing negotiations – is annexed to your Judgment of Divorce and becomes a binding Order. You leave the courtroom with your attorney as you wonder “Now what?” Here are some practical ways that you can protect yourself in...Read More5/14/12
Recommended Books on Divorce, Co-Parenting and Personal GrowthIf you are an avid reader (like me), chances are you like to learn about new ways of seeing and doing things. I highly recommend the following books for those going through divorce, are already divorced and want to learn about co-parenting, and for those simply interested in personal growth. Each book contains valuable insight and offers some great tips: The Collaborative Way to Divorce...Read More4/26/12
Instead of Reacting, Stand For Yourself to Meet Your Needs During DivorceWhenever we Some suggestions for standing for yourself during the divorce process or when facing a family law issue: 1. 2. 3. Specifically, in divorce negotiations, the goal is generally to achieve a global settlement with terms that are beneficial to Please feel free to comment on this post and/or pass it on to others who might find this information helpful...Read More4/15/12
4 Ways to Make Your Voice Heard During the Divorce or Custody ProcessWhen you are going through a divorce or facing a custody or parenting time dispute with your spouse, you should be sure and make your voice be heard so that a meaningful result can be achieved. This is different than arguing back and forth with your spouse so that neither one of you is hearing the other or understanding where the other is coming from. Keep in mind...Read More