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2/11/16

Is it Possible to Have an “Amicable Divorce” in New Jersey?

There are certainly the obvious benefits to of an “amicable divorce” over a contentious divorce. After all, an amicable divorce would be far better for your children, your emotional health, and certainly beneficial in terms of lower legal fees. But is an “amicable divorce” possible? The term “divorce” often evokes painful emotions beyond the grief commonly associated with the breakup of a marriage. There is...

1/26/16

What Really Happens When You Litigate Your Divorce in New Jersey

What does it really mean when we talk about “going to court” in divorce? So little is known about this area, prompting much speculation, rumors, and unease. This is why the thought of getting a divorce and “going to court” often evokes much fear and anxiety for divorcing spouses. If you do choose to “go to court” in New Jersey, what you can expect in general is...

12/17/15

How will Divorce Affect the Children?

The short answer is…that’s up to you. Ideally, you will have cooperation from your spouse. Children generally need the love and support of both parents in order to thrive regardless of whether their parents remain married. The term “divorce” refers simply to legal status. It’s the According to studies, children tend to identify with both parents and to want to please each one. Therefore,...

11/17/15

5 Ways to Prevent a Divorce From Breaking Your Bank Account

Divorce is rarely if ever considered a pleasant experience, even when both spouses want to separate and are willing to part on good terms. But if a divorce is inevitable, then it’s important to first seek out the advice of a competent divorce attorney, preferably one who is settlement-oriented, to learn how you can best minimize your legal fees while preparing financially for your post-divorce...

10/31/15

Why Not All Divorces Are Created Equal

When seeking a divorce, it’s important to be aware of the different processes that are available. What’s the Difference? When emotions are running high, it might seem like traditional divorce litigation is the only available option. It may not be the best route in every circumstance, however. The Decision is Out of Your Hands Traditional litigated divorce is an option that can often lead to...

10/30/15

4 Important Considerations Before You Divorce

For many couples, divorce is something that has been coming for a long time and each side has been preparing for it. For others, the idea of divorce is a surprise and seems as if it came out of nowhere. Regardless of how divorce came about, it is generally beneficial to prepare as much as possible for the post-divorce circumstances. Here are four factors to consider...

10/21/15

What Exactly Does Child Support Cover?

Child support is generally calculated according to the New Jersey Child Support Guidelines (“The Guidelines”) using software that takes into consideration both parents’ combined income. Where the parents’ combined net income, however, exceeds that which is subsumed within the Guidelines, additional child support may be appropriate by examining certain statutory factors. But what expenses are actually covered by child support? This is important to know...

10/15/15

How To Instantly Improve Your Divorce Process

When some people think about divorce, they conjure up thoughts of a lengthy, hurtful, difficult process—one where both parties are extremely emotional and desperate to start getting on with their lives. These visions make the thought of divorcing difficult to process and even harder to imagine going through. Fortunately, divorce doesn’t need to be this way. One alternative is collaborative divorce, which offers the support...

10/9/15

How To Divorce Amicably

“Amicable divorce” appears to be a contradiction of terms. Some people’s ideas of divorce may automatically include arguments, blame, deceit, and a highly agitated state of discord. For these types of couples, the two words “amicable” and “divorce” could most likely never appear in the same sentence. But this isn’t always the case. Many times, couples come to the difficult decision of divorce in a...

9/24/15

Why Looking For Cheap Divorce Lawyers Is Pointless

If you are considering seeking a divorce, or if you received a divorce complaint or correspondence from your spouse or an attorney on his or her behalf, you might struggle with the decision about whether to retain an experienced attorney or an attorney that offers discounted fees for streamlined services. Hiring an experienced, competent, and knowledgeable lawyer may cost more on an hourly basis, but...