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7/17/18
When Does a Non-Marital Asset Become “Marital” in Your New Jersey Divorce?If you’re separated or considering divorce, chances are you’re wondering which assets are likely yours to keep. In New Jersey, assets that have been acquired “during the marriage” are subject to “equitable distribution.” The term “during the marriage” generally includes the date of marriage through the date the divorce complaint is filed with the court. Further, the term “equitable distribution” means allocation of marital property...Read More7/10/18
Separated and Divorced Parents: When to Introduce Your Children to a New Dating Partner According to New Jersey Family CourtsIn can be difficult for separated and divorced parents to determine when it’s best to introduce their children to a new dating partner. Each child is unique, of course. That’s why it generally makes much more sense for separated and divorced parents to agree on how best to introduce their children to a new dating partner instead of leaving it up to the court to decide. Before the...Read More7/5/18
Dos And Don’ts for Settling Disputes with the Opposite SexDisputes are a way of life. Settling them effectively with people you see every day eliminates the stress that comes with carrying around resentment. The problem is that while we all need to be heard and understood, men and women speak different languages. For instance, according to marriage expert and researcher Shaunti Feldhahn in her book, For Women Only, “a man’s highest need is to...Read More7/4/18
How To Keep Your Relationship Healthy, According To Divorce LawyersWhen it comes to relationships, some are healthier than others when it comes to how both people relate to one another. Of course, good communication between you and your partner is critical. Without it, unexpected conflicts and miscommunication are more likely to occur. However, there are many additional components that can help keep you and your significant other together, too. With a little know-how, there...Read More7/2/18
Why A Prenup Might Not Protect Your Financial Interests In Your New Jersey DivorcePerhaps you’re about to get married and considering having a prenup prepared. Or you might already have a prenup that you want to enforce in your impending divorce. People getting married have a variety of reasons for wanting a prenuptial agreement (also called a premarital agreement or prenup, for short). For instance: To protect the inheritance rights of children and grandchildren from a previous marriage; To protect...Read More6/25/18
A Simple Guide for Separated and Divorced Parents When Planning Summer VacationsIt’s summertime. Time for planning and enjoying vacations with your children. If you’re a separated or divorced parent, it’s wise to head off any disputes with your co-parent before planning your vacation. That way, your children can enjoy a stress-free vacation with you this summer. Ideally, you should have a written custody and parenting time agreement in place. These typically include terms about vacation time...Read More6/19/18
SharpHeels – In Conversation With: Michele HartI met practicing divorce and family lawyer, Click to read full article...Read More6/19/18
5 Ways to Help You Get What You Want in Your DivorceIdeally, you should be able to get what you want in your divorce, right? It’s a common belief, however, that you need a judge to decide how much alimony or child support you will pay or when you will spend time with your children. What you might not realize is that there are particular things you can do during the divorce process to increase your...Read More6/19/18
What Really Happens in Divorce: Myth Vs RealityIt’s common to feel afraid to get a divorce when there is so much information out there that is, well, just plain scary. It’s like getting to the edge of a cliff and being afraid to jump off. Fortunately, most, if not all of this “information” is simply not true. You might call it pure myth. Some of the most common myths I’ve heard include:...Read More6/18/18
Three Ways Divorce Mediation Can Cost You More in the Long Run in DivorceTo obtain a divorce in New Jersey, either you or your spouse files a legal document called the “Complaint for Divorce” with the court. Many divorcing spouses don’t realize they can reach a final agreement This is where divorce mediation comes in. Divorcing spouses might agree to use a divorce mediator to act as a neutral third party to help them agree on all...Read More