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8/3/18
Three Actions to Take Right Now for an Amicable DivorceIf you’re considering divorce, here are 3 actions to take right now for an amicable divorce process. 1. Gather key documents about your marital finances. Knowing what you have will give you a head start on a plan for dividing marital assets. Here is a 2. Consult with one or more competent family law attorneys to find out what to expect. Resist all temptation to...Read More7/24/18
How to Protect Your Pre-Marital Retirement Plan in New Jersey DivorceIn New Jersey, only assets acquired by either spouse “during the marriage” are subject to being divided in divorce. It’s not uncommon, however, to start contributing to your retirement plan Perhaps you’re now separated or considering divorce. What happens to your premarital retirement plan? Does your spouse have a right to half? Contributions during the marriage The first thing to do is determine if you...Read More7/17/18
When Does a Non-Marital Asset Become “Marital” in Your New Jersey Divorce?If you’re separated or considering divorce, chances are you’re wondering which assets are likely yours to keep. In New Jersey, assets that have been acquired “during the marriage” are subject to “equitable distribution.” The term “during the marriage” generally includes the date of marriage through the date the divorce complaint is filed with the court. Further, the term “equitable distribution” means allocation of marital property...Read More7/10/18
Separated and Divorced Parents: When to Introduce Your Children to a New Dating Partner According to New Jersey Family CourtsIn can be difficult for separated and divorced parents to determine when it’s best to introduce their children to a new dating partner. Each child is unique, of course. That’s why it generally makes much more sense for separated and divorced parents to agree on how best to introduce their children to a new dating partner instead of leaving it up to the court to decide. Before the...Read More7/5/18
Dos And Don’ts for Settling Disputes with the Opposite SexDisputes are a way of life. Settling them effectively with people you see every day eliminates the stress that comes with carrying around resentment. The problem is that while we all need to be heard and understood, men and women speak different languages. For instance, according to marriage expert and researcher Shaunti Feldhahn in her book, For Women Only, “a man’s highest need is to...Read More7/4/18
How To Keep Your Relationship Healthy, According To Divorce LawyersWhen it comes to relationships, some are healthier than others when it comes to how both people relate to one another. Of course, good communication between you and your partner is critical. Without it, unexpected conflicts and miscommunication are more likely to occur. However, there are many additional components that can help keep you and your significant other together, too. With a little know-how, there...Read More7/2/18
Why A Prenup Might Not Protect Your Financial Interests In Your New Jersey DivorcePerhaps you’re about to get married and considering having a prenup prepared. Or you might already have a prenup that you want to enforce in your impending divorce. People getting married have a variety of reasons for wanting a prenuptial agreement (also called a premarital agreement or prenup, for short). For instance: To protect the inheritance rights of children and grandchildren from a previous marriage; To protect...Read More6/25/18
A Simple Guide for Separated and Divorced Parents When Planning Summer VacationsIt’s summertime. Time for planning and enjoying vacations with your children. If you’re a separated or divorced parent, it’s wise to head off any disputes with your co-parent before planning your vacation. That way, your children can enjoy a stress-free vacation with you this summer. Ideally, you should have a written custody and parenting time agreement in place. These typically include terms about vacation time...Read More6/19/18
SharpHeels – In Conversation With: Michele HartI met practicing divorce and family lawyer, Click to read full article...Read More6/19/18
5 Ways to Help You Get What You Want in Your DivorceIdeally, you should be able to get what you want in your divorce, right? It’s a common belief, however, that you need a judge to decide how much alimony or child support you will pay or when you will spend time with your children. What you might not realize is that there are particular things you can do during the divorce process to increase your...Read More