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8/27/18
The 11 Most Costly Mistakes in Divorce and How to Avoid ThemAs a family lawyer for the past 20 years, I’ve seen the same mistakes made time and time again by people going through divorce. And what many lawyers unfortunately don’t tell you (nor necessarily intentionally) is that these mistakes are costly and can be avoided. Therefore, I’ve compiled this list of 11 costliest mistakes in divorce if you’re separated or considering divorce and how to avoid them. Hiring the...Read More8/21/18
Simple Answers to the Most Often Asked Alimony QuestionsAlimony is where one spouse makes regular periodic payments to the other after the divorce is finalized. Generally, New Jersey courts have the authority to decide if alimony is appropriate, and if so, the amount and duration of alimony payments by one spouse. The Only about 1% of all divorce cases filed in New Jersey, however, go to trial. The vast majority is settled out...Read More8/13/18
How to Tell Your Children You’re Getting a DivorceIt’s a common belief that it’s better for your children to stay in an unhappy marriage than to be subjected to divorce. Naturally you might want to avoid uprooting your children from the only life of family, friends, and home they’ve ever known. Below is what can affect children the most and offers simple tips to help them adjust. Emotional effects on children As a former...Read More8/6/18
Do You Really Need a Lawyer to Handle Your Divorce?Many spouses considering divorce think their divorce should be simple and there’s no need to get lawyers involved. After all, it’s a common belief that lawyers mean fighting and expensive legal fees. What divorcing spouses often don’t realize, however, is that many key issues are often overlooked when reaching their own divorce agreements, only to land them in court after the divorce. And it’s far more expensive...Read More8/3/18
Three Actions to Take Right Now for an Amicable DivorceIf you’re considering divorce, here are 3 actions to take right now for an amicable divorce process. 1. Gather key documents about your marital finances. Knowing what you have will give you a head start on a plan for dividing marital assets. Here is a 2. Consult with one or more competent family law attorneys to find out what to expect. Resist all temptation to...Read More7/24/18
How to Protect Your Pre-Marital Retirement Plan in New Jersey DivorceIn New Jersey, only assets acquired by either spouse “during the marriage” are subject to being divided in divorce. It’s not uncommon, however, to start contributing to your retirement plan Perhaps you’re now separated or considering divorce. What happens to your premarital retirement plan? Does your spouse have a right to half? Contributions during the marriage The first thing to do is determine if you...Read More7/17/18
When Does a Non-Marital Asset Become “Marital” in Your New Jersey Divorce?If you’re separated or considering divorce, chances are you’re wondering which assets are likely yours to keep. In New Jersey, assets that have been acquired “during the marriage” are subject to “equitable distribution.” The term “during the marriage” generally includes the date of marriage through the date the divorce complaint is filed with the court. Further, the term “equitable distribution” means allocation of marital property...Read More7/10/18
Separated and Divorced Parents: When to Introduce Your Children to a New Dating Partner According to New Jersey Family CourtsIn can be difficult for separated and divorced parents to determine when it’s best to introduce their children to a new dating partner. Each child is unique, of course. That’s why it generally makes much more sense for separated and divorced parents to agree on how best to introduce their children to a new dating partner instead of leaving it up to the court to decide. Before the...Read More7/5/18
Dos And Don’ts for Settling Disputes with the Opposite SexDisputes are a way of life. Settling them effectively with people you see every day eliminates the stress that comes with carrying around resentment. The problem is that while we all need to be heard and understood, men and women speak different languages. For instance, according to marriage expert and researcher Shaunti Feldhahn in her book, For Women Only, “a man’s highest need is to...Read More7/4/18
How To Keep Your Relationship Healthy, According To Divorce LawyersWhen it comes to relationships, some are healthier than others when it comes to how both people relate to one another. Of course, good communication between you and your partner is critical. Without it, unexpected conflicts and miscommunication are more likely to occur. However, there are many additional components that can help keep you and your significant other together, too. With a little know-how, there...Read More