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1/10/20
Four Simple Steps to Handle Difficult Conversations with Confidence and EaseHave you ever found yourself feeling like you need to speak up to someone about something but unable to find the right words? When you’re stumped on how to say what needs to be said without pissing off the other person and starting an argument? When it simply seems easier to say nothing at all? But then sometimes, if we don’t say something, things will...Read More1/3/20
Ten Tips on College Costs for Separated or Divorcing ParentsHappy New Year! If you’re separated or considering divorce, is 2020 the year you’d like to start planning for your children’s college educations? If so, and you haven’t yet decided on the specifics of college planning, read on to find out what to focus on and what to do next. College is expensive, to say the least. So, in general, it’s never too early to start planning...Read More12/20/19
How To Dramatically Transform All Your Relationships In The New Year and BeyondI have to admit, during the holidays, I’m a sucker for those cheesy Hallmark Christmas movies. The ones that portray loved ones gathered around a roaring fire or baking cookies in a warm home expressing warm fuzzy feelings to each other. Ironically, I can’t help but notice the stark contrast of this image with today’s reality. Tune in to any major news channel and we become instantly bombarded...Read More12/12/19
Four Ways To Win Your Negotiation When The Relationship Is ImportantWe negotiate all the time with people we see on a regular basis – and with whom we have an ongoing relationship that’s important to maintain. Negotiation is essentially the process of reaching agreements. In business, it might be with business partners, vendors, investors, and employees. At home, it might be with your spouse – from whether to go out or stay in, or whether to stay together...Read More12/5/19
Four Important Tips for Navigating the Holidays with Kids When You’re Separated or DivorcedNo doubt about it – divorce is difficult as it is. And during the holidays, it can be downright brutal. Especially when you have kids who need you. If you’re divorced, it’s likely you already have a custody and parenting time arrangement spelled out in your divorce agreement. If you’re separated, you can have your lawyer draft up a In any case, it’s important...Read More11/25/19
Seven Ways to Feel Grateful for Difficult Family Members this ThanksgivingThe Thanksgiving holiday is traditionally when we celebrate all that we’re thankful for. It’s also a holiday often spent with family members. But what if certain family members leave us feeling anything but thankful? We don’t have to let difficult family members get in the way of an enjoyable Thanksgiving holiday. After all, every challenging relationship is an opportunity to learn something about ourselves and...Read More11/21/19
The Surprising Scoop on Mediation that Everyone Should KnowWhile you might have heard of mediation, very little is known to the public about what mediation really is and the many ways it can be used to derail the high cost of conflict. This post gives you the lowdown on mediation – the surprising scoop and its many benefits that everyone should know. As most lawsuits settle before the judge decides, litigants are increasingly...Read More11/13/19
Three Tips to Successfully Sidestep Family Drama this Holiday SeasonWith Thanksgiving rapidly approaching, you might expect to spend more time with family. And with certain family members, it might be more time than you’d prefer. While the holidays are often portrayed in the media as a joyous time lovingly shared with close-knit families, reality can be anything but. There are the obligatory family gatherings with all the usual suspects. They might include The Political Ranter,...Read More11/5/19
Three Ways to Decide Custody and Parenting Time in Your New Jersey DivorceIf you have kids and are separated from your spouse or considering divorce, this post is for you. Generally, before resolving the finances of your divorce, such as alimony or division of marital assets, custody and parenting time arrangements will need to be made for your children. These arrangements are typically finalized in a written legal document obtained in the following 3 ways. 1. Mutual agreement In New...Read More10/28/19
How Much Child Support Can You Expect to Pay In Your New Jersey Divorce?Divorced parents in New Jersey are legally obligated to financially support their children until emancipation. A child is most commonly deemed emancipated upon age 19 or completion of a full-time college education. So if you’re separated or divorcing from your spouse, how much child support can you expect to pay in New Jersey? The amount of child support is generally calculated once you and your...Read More